What can I do to get my Ex back again and find some relationship break-up advice is what you’re trying to accomplish, Right? Well, as a Former Social Director that has helped many people with a variety of problems including relationship issues, I have had great results with getting someone back together with their Ex. Although, I have to tell you this is something that is going to take some time, patience, and effort on your part. I will be here right beside you every step of the way. Don’t give up because we are going to get some things accomplished here at my site and that’s a promise!
Now, I’m not sure how you’ve lost your Ex, so I am going to make a few guesses as to why the breakup happened in the first place. First of all, I am thinking that you or your Ex has done something very wrong to cause this breakup. Depending on what happened and who’s a fault it may be, this may have to be handled by what it was that caused the breakup in the first place. With that being said, I am going to layout a few different things here for you so that maybe you can figure out what it is that could have caused your breakup.
Whatever the reason may be, I want you to keep in mind that you cannot just trust anyone’s advice because this is just not wise if you truly want your Ex back. As being someone here who really does care about your happiness, I want you to know that I highly recommend you get help from the professionals who know best.
There are things I know I can help you with and I will never try to steer you in the wrong direction but if your breakup is over anything that gets way too deep for me to handle and you don’t find the answer you’re looking for from me then I do know of someone who could give you even more free advice with the deeper situations. Now that, that’s out of the way let’s get started and see if I can answer your question on “what can I do to get my Ex back again. Remember now, I’m guessing this out! Bare with me for just a bit and maybe I can help. I sure hope I can!
Did You Or Your EX Always Choose Friends First?
Choosing friends before the one you love so often can definitely cause relationship problems. Although we try not to do this, it happens without even realizing it. It’s true that we all need friends but be careful not to spend most of your time with friends because this can cause your relationship to become as sour as a lemon if not even sourer than that.
Most relationships require much quality time together so be sure to give this time to the one you love first and then hang out with your friends when you know you have spent plenty of quality time with the one who needs it the most. Just remember not to be too clingy. Believe it or not, there is a happy medium. Let your Ex know that you miss them and want to spend more quality time together. You don’t need to mention this until you have a proven plan to use before getting in touch with your Ex. Try to make sure the timing is right.
Could It Be That One Of You Cheated?
Let me start out by saying, It can really crush someone to find out that they have been cheated on. The hurt from this runs through the body as water runs through a faucet. It is going to take a lot of trust-building before you get your Ex to even talk to you. The good news here is that you can get forgiveness from your Ex for cheating. There truly is hope if you use a proven plan. I do not recommend contacting them about this touchy subject until you do have a proven plan. It can really turn into a disaster if not approached in the correct manner. After you have built the trust back, you can have a normal relationship. Believe it or not, with the right proven plan your Ex could love you, even more, this go around. Are you finding this hard to believe? It is true my friend! Fix your Cheating problem and you can get your Ex back.
Did Either One Of You Become Verbally Abusive?
If it was verbal abuse by either one of you, I want you to realize that words can cut really deep through the heart and I mean like ending up going clean through to the other side of our hearts. Sometimes we as humans tend to speak before we think of how much our words can hurt someone else. This is something you will definitely have to work on and probably have to make sure some angry management is taken before you even think about trying to get your Ex back.
Remember your words have cut really deep and it will take them some time to respect you again. If you were the one who was verbally abused then you must make sure this is something that has been fixed before you consider taking them back. No one should stay in a relationship with this sort of abuse going on. It can feel just like being hit in the face by a very large fist. Again, please make sure this is resolved with either one of you before getting back together with each other again. Trust me! Verbal abuse can lead to much bigger things which brings me to the next subject.
Was There Any Physical Abuse In The Relationship?
Please tell me this was not the cause of the breakup my friend! Now we’re getting into that deep subject that I mentioned above. This can not be tolerated in any relationship whatsoever! I can’t stress it enough! If you were physically abused then get out now while you can.
If you were the one who became physically abusive well then you must seek help now before you even think about being a part of someone’s life. This is a terrible way to live for anyone who may be involved. Physical abuse is very dangerous and someone could get hurt really bad and I hate to even say the word but it can even cause death and does at times. More than I care to even think about.
Now, if any of these problems were the cause of your breakup and you give the effort to get your problems straightened out and can prove you have, then more than likely your Ex will give the effort of trying to forgive you and take you back. Be sure you never try any of this again or you could land right back in the same positions. Lost without you EX.